Many people struggle with an addiction of some sort and will often try to hide it from those around them. It is difficult to tell whether or not someone special in your life has an issue with alcohol or drugs. These are some general signs that your loved one is dealing with an addiction.
They Look Different
Drugs and alcohol can take a toll on someone’s appearance over time. It’s not uncommon for a person who is dealing with an addiction to neglect their hygiene. They may also lose weight and appear to be tired often. Some individuals may blackout which can lead to them injuring themselves. Be on the lookout for symptoms of addiction like bruises or cuts that look unusual. Skin picking is another sign that your loved one may have an addiction.
Those that are struggling with an addiction may have poor health overall. It’s difficult to stay healthy when the body is constantly being infiltrated with drugs or alcohol. Your loved one might constantly have a cold or get headaches often. Other signs of addiction may also be present. These include chronic cough or persistent nausea. If there’s no other explanation for your loved one being sick often they may be dealing with an addiction.
Being Withdrawn From Those Around Them
It’s not uncommon for individuals that are dealing with an addiction to withdrawal from those that are around them. This is because they are trying to hide their addiction from others. They also may not want to spend their time socializing and would rather stay home and use their drug of choice. If they had hobbies or were part of any clubs or sports leagues they may end up just quitting them abruptly so that they can spend more time at home and hide their addiction from those around them.
Extremely Hyper Or Very Sleepy
Some drugs make the user sleep less and cause them to be extremely hyper. This is true for stimulants like cocaine. Individuals that use them will stay awake for unusually long periods of time. Once they do come down from the drug they will often sleep for many hours or even a full day or two. This is one of the most common signs of addiction. Other drugs, such as depressants like heroin can make them act a completely different way. Your loved one may end up sleeping constantly and have a low energy level on a consistent basis.
No matter how straightforward your loved one has been in the past it all may change if they are dealing with an addiction. You might find that they act very secretive. You have no idea what is going on in their life and they aren’t very forthcoming with this information. They will suddenly stop answering your phone calls and avoid talking to you so they don’t have to talk about what is going on with them.
Those who are addicted tend to lie quite a bit in order to hide their addiction. Not only do they lie to those around them, but to themselves as well. They don’t want to admit that they have an addiction and will lie to you if you ask them about it. They may also lie about what they have been doing and will tell elaborate stories to try to cover up their addiction. In the past, your loved one may have been known for being trustworthy, but have completely changed into someone who lies on a persistent basis.
Moodiness For No Apparent Reason
All of us have mood swings at one point or another. However, if your loved one is dealing with an addiction you may notice that they have them often. Even if they used to be very level headed they might now act hostile or be set off very easily. You often may feel that you have to walk on eggshells in order to keep from making them angry. This is not normal and if you notice that your loved one is acting this way they may be dealing with an addiction to either alcohol or drugs.
Issues With Authority Figures
It’s difficult for addicts to follow rules. They might have issues holding down a job because they have constant conflict with their boss, drop out of school because they can’t seem to complete their assignments on time or face legal trouble because they consistently break the law. Addiction can control their ability to make the right decisions and you will notice that your loved one has issues with authority figures as a symptom of their addiction.
People with addictions aren’t very good at budgeting their money. They will forego paying their bills in order to be able to buy drugs or alcohol. Your loved one that’s dealing with an addiction will often not have money for food and can’t pay their rent or utility bills. They may constantly ask you for money and will swear that this is the last time that they will be in this situation. It is not uncommon for some addicts to become homeless because they simply don’t have enough money to pay their bills because they spend what money they do have to buy their drug of choice.
In conclusion, many families find themselves in a situation where a loved one is dealing with an addiction. While you may want to confront this person you might not be sure whether or not they truly have an addiction or if they are just struggling with day to day life. The above symptoms of addiction are commonly displayed by individuals that have an addiction of some sort. If you do suspect that your loved one has an addiction it is important that you show your concern in a nonjudgmental way. Be a listening ear and offer to help them find a treatment facility that can help them overcome their addiction so that they can start living their life to the fullest.